We've been in this situation for like the past 2 years. Im not that good at explaining but our stepdad/3 of my sisters real dad/my moms ex husband keeps coming back and back even though he has left us in the beginning of 2018. he was arrested for drunk driving with a minor in the car and got deported for it. Later he was found and deported again for i dont know (we were not that aware on what he did at that time.) We really did do our best on our own, we were still struggling in a lot of ways. but we could handle it, up until the pandemic happened. My mom lost her job and got a new one after a while, my sister was laid off and was unemployed for a while up until recently. I was not laid off but I left my job because of anxiety and depression but I've recently started to work there again for the money.
Tw // SEXUAL ASSULT , ABUSE , TRAUMA (MAYBE)
our step dad Hugo Perez assulted my mom on December 19, 2020 at 4:30-4:50 am in her bedroom. My brother (7 years old) was in the room sleeping right next to her. One of my younger sisters (11 years old) heard his walk in and heard my mother scream and heard everything with my brother. He broke into the house (he's broken inside before). I and my sisters (one being 22 years old and the other being 14 years old) heard my other younger sister yell for us and we ran as fast as we could. I was awake till 3:56 am. The day before, around 7pm - 9pm, they've argued about him paying child support for his children, but he refused because "he is paying for his own stuff already." my mother has the same amount to pay in bills yet she still provides everything for us when we need to. the months before hand he has been bothering and harrassing my mom because he wants a "second chance" or wants to come back and us go back like we were. Shes reported it to the police of course (everything he has done). So when the assult happened the police had reports to be able to arrest him.
we have known him for 15 years and we've already experienced abuse and sexual assult by him, unfortunatelly. we were children. hes abused and yelled at my mom and he's always harrassed me and my sisters and used to hit us. when he left our family finally we're able to get closer and be more open to eachother. Because of trauma, me, my sister, my mom, my other sister, and possibly the other 2 have depression. Ive been diagnosed and so has been my mother and my big sister.
the real reason he's wanting to come back is the reasons of my mother having papers and he doesn't. his only real motivation is him wanting to be legal in the United States and money. He never really wanted to be there for his kids. I can't go into his head and read but from what he's said gives clear signs he doesn't really care for his children.
My mom isn't legally seperate from him because money Is really tight. We really just want any donations really so we are able to move somewhere he and his friends can't find us. They've always told him what we have been doing and where we live.
sorry if this message is everywhere, from when I wrote it, the time is 7:04 am on December 19, 2020. I also am not the best writer, any questions I can answer on @inkdnk on any platform. we really just want to move because he's returned 2 times after being deported twice already.
we will be greatful for any help